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Welcome to just break up the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the

relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de

Molder and I'm Sam Blackwell and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose relationship has fallen out from under him.

But before we give you that stuff, we want to give you our Surgeon General's warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners we can't even do our intro without fucking up so yeah exactly. Yep, exactly.

We don't even remember the script.

We've been saying once a week for five years.

And now three times a week, so.

Yeah, we are not trained in any of this so please take

our advice as you see fit. We are only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs on the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

So it's Mondays and before we dive into today's letter we're going to check in quickly on a quick check-in topic which I'm stealing from something on the internet.

When I was scrolling... from something on the internet.

When I was scrolling the interwebs the other day, I saw like a video come up in my Explorer tab

or whatever, and I don't know who it's from you can I Googled it and there is like a

a tic-toc or something on YouTube but I don't know if that's the

YouTube I don't know man. There's words somewhere on a video in the web in the sky somewhere.

Anyway they were just they were talking about like how everybody claims they have a

type or like that that idea in

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