For a lot of couples, the only time you touch each other is when you're very clear that

it's going to lead to sex. That creates this really unfortunate dynamic where you feel like,

oh, I don't want to touch my partner because then they'll think we're going to have sex.

And so a lot of couples have really touch-starved relationships.

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All right, well this is take two of us starting to record this episode. We got like two minutes

into it and I was like, babe, I'm just not feeling the vibe yet. I think you did dance for me.

And I did. Oh, did I deliver?

We're really going to have to start making video recordings of our podcast tapings.

There's something really special just happened in this room you guys. And I'm sad that you missed

out on it. There was some like fast foot action. There was some like some hip dips and swivels.

I'm not quite sure where those came from, but I am in the zone now and ready to record this

episode. Hell yes, I had a vision in my mind of what I wanted that dance to look like and my body

did not deliver. But I guess it delivered humor and that counts. Your body has a mind of its own.

So today's episode is all about 2022 and how we can start this brand new year on a new foot

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