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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is wondering about right person wrong time.

But before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Correct. We are not trained in this.

We are not professionals by any means, so please take our advice as you see fit.

We are only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right, let's get right into our letter.

So this letter comes from Hopeful Romantic, whose pronouns are she, her,

who is writing from Ohio.

Hi, Sam and Sierra.

I found your podcast when I went through my first breakup, listened to a few episodes and then fell

off my podcast game, aka stopped listening to any of them.

I am back again after a different breakup and

have found your episode specifically discussing the dynamics between X partners

to be very informative and helpful. I know you've talked about X's is a bit, but I haven't found anything surrounding the idea of right person wrong time.

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