Episode 3: Should Sex Happen Naturally?
Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
4.8 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 10 June 2021
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
Should sex happen naturally?
This is one of the most common questions we get asked, and it can cause some serious tension in relationships. You may want to work on improving your sex life or making changes, but your partner refuses because they think it should just happen naturally.
In this episode, we're going to uncover the truth about how sex really works in a long-term relationship. We think you’re going to be pretty surprised...
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| 0:00.0 | Sex, in and of itself, is natural, normal, healthy, but the reality is that having a great |
| 0:06.7 | sex life, in a relationship, there really is nothing spontaneous or effortless about that. |
| 0:18.1 | Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. Where are your hosts, Vanessa? |
| 0:23.7 | And Sandra Marin. |
| 0:25.1 | I'm a sex therapist with 20 years of experience. |
| 0:28.0 | And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you |
| 0:33.4 | step-by-step techniques for improving yours. |
| 0:36.0 | So make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, |
| 0:40.8 | practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind |
| 0:46.2 | closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd have. |
| 1:02.8 | Do you feel like sex should happen just naturally? |
| 1:06.6 | Do you feel like having to talk about or plan or work at your sex life means that you're doing |
| 1:11.6 | something wrong? And if you do feel that way, does it make you worry that maybe you're not |
| 1:16.8 | with the right person or maybe not even in the right relationship? |
| 1:20.6 | These are some big questions we're tackling today. |
| 1:23.1 | Oh yeah. |
| 1:24.0 | So I'll give you a little spoiler alert right here at the beginning. |
| 1:27.9 | I like to say that sex is the most unnatural natural act. |
| 1:33.7 | So yeah, sex in and of itself is natural, normal, healthy, |
| 1:38.4 | but the reality is that having a great sex life in a relationship, |
| 1:43.0 | there really is nothing spontaneous or effortless about that. |
| 1:47.7 | So in today's episode, we're going to be debunking this very common myth, |
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