How can we reach Christian guys that are getting caught up in the every man's battle philosophy,

that are being taught that they deserve to be in charge, that they are in authority

over women, and that the biggest problem in sex is that women won't give it to them enough

and not that they don't really understand that sex is supposed to be intimate. That's what we're

to be talking about today on the Bear Marriage podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregor from Bearmarriage.com,

where we like to talk about healthy,

evidence-based, biblical advice for your sex life and your marriage. And you know,

one of the things that we're talking about in season nine, which just launched, we just came back from our vacation, is how do we reach people who are still in the thick of it? And it's been

quite the month in the news. You know, we've had high profile

evangelical leaders like Doug Wilson profiled on CNN, him and his supporters calling for the repeal

of the 19th Amendment, which allowed women to vote. We have the Secretary of Defense, the fourth in line to

the presidency, retweeting that and agreeing with it. It's, we're in the middle of a difficult season, right?

And the thing about Doug Wilson is that he's not an outlier. Okay, people are treating him like

he's an outlier, but all that he is saying is what has been said in mainstream

evangelicalism for years, he's just saying it out loud. But what Doug Wilson is talking about

is the logical extension of our bestsellers, like love and respect, like every man's battle,

like lies women believe. You know, when we tell women that they're a little bit

less equal, should we be surprised when people then talk about women, like they're a lot less equal.

As soon as you make women less equal, whether it's a little, little or a lot, it's going to end up

in the same place. And so today, as we were talking about how to change people's minds, I want to do something I've

never done before, which is I want to play an interview that I did when I was a guest on another

podcast. Earlier this summer, I was on a podcast called the 3% podcast, and the guys are going to

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