Episode 29: Anxious? Avoidant? What Your Attachment Style Says About You (And Your Relationship)

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2021

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Attachment Style Theory looks at the ways we respond to other people based on the way we responded to our earliest relationships: our relationships with our parents. In this episode we're talking about what each style means for the people who have it, plus how the styles relate to each other.

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0:00.0	Sometimes this can be a bad thing where you're really over-analysing and we do this sometimes too about like
0:05.8	Oh, did you have a weird tone in your like oh you looked at me weird. What does that face me?
0:10.1	Yeah. Oh, yeah. That's that's when we get in
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0:40.4	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind
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0:53.4	Today we are talking about attachment. On a scale of 1 to 10 how attached are you to me?
0:59.9	10. That's easy. Was there any other option? I was trying to think of if there was a song about
1:06.3	attachment that I could get you to sing at the beginning of our episode like you sang at the
1:10.1	beginning of last week's episode but I drawn a blank there. ATTCH, shoot I lost my place in this
1:21.0	spelling. I was like kind of gonna do it to respect but didn't quite work. ATTCH,
1:29.6	ATTCH, come in ATTCH. ATTCH, I know what means to me. Wow okay. ATTCH, I'm ATTCH, I'm
1:39.8	ATTCH. Today we learned that the under can't spell. It's hard to try to spell while singing.
1:47.2	You're right. Well today we're just gonna come at you with our podcast all about attachment.
1:52.2	I feel like a lot of people have heard this term attachment styles. I feel like this probably
1:56.8	gets mixed up with like all the other things out there. It's like anyagram type or like what are
2:03.9	the other things? Myers, Briggs, personality type. I feel like for a lot of people this all
2:09.9	probably just gets mixed up. All these different things, all these different quizzes that we're
2:14.0	supposed to take. You know what keeps coming to mind for me is Harry Styles. I keep probably
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