Episode 29: Anxious? Avoidant? What Your Attachment Style Says About You (And Your Relationship)
Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
4.8 • 2.6K Ratings
🗓️ 9 December 2021
⏱️ 51 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Sometimes this can be a bad thing where you're really over-analysing and we do this sometimes too about like |
| 0:05.8 | Oh, did you have a weird tone in your like oh you looked at me weird. What does that face me? |
| 0:10.1 | Yeah. Oh, yeah. That's that's when we get in |
| 0:19.4 | Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. We're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin. |
| 0:25.3 | I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience and I'm just a regular dude |
| 0:30.1 | We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for |
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| 0:40.4 | practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind |
| 0:45.9 | closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had. |
| 0:53.4 | Today we are talking about attachment. On a scale of 1 to 10 how attached are you to me? |
| 0:59.9 | 10. That's easy. Was there any other option? I was trying to think of if there was a song about |
| 1:06.3 | attachment that I could get you to sing at the beginning of our episode like you sang at the |
| 1:10.1 | beginning of last week's episode but I drawn a blank there. ATTCH, shoot I lost my place in this |
| 1:21.0 | spelling. I was like kind of gonna do it to respect but didn't quite work. ATTCH, |
| 1:29.6 | ATTCH, come in ATTCH. ATTCH, I know what means to me. Wow okay. ATTCH, I'm ATTCH, I'm |
| 1:39.8 | ATTCH. Today we learned that the under can't spell. It's hard to try to spell while singing. |
| 1:47.2 | You're right. Well today we're just gonna come at you with our podcast all about attachment. |
| 1:52.2 | I feel like a lot of people have heard this term attachment styles. I feel like this probably |
| 1:56.8 | gets mixed up with like all the other things out there. It's like anyagram type or like what are |
| 2:03.9 | the other things? Myers, Briggs, personality type. I feel like for a lot of people this all |
| 2:09.9 | probably just gets mixed up. All these different things, all these different quizzes that we're |
| 2:14.0 | supposed to take. You know what keeps coming to mind for me is Harry Styles. I keep probably |
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