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Pillow Talks

Episode 28: So Your Partner Told You Their Fantasy... And You're Not Into It

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.82.6K Ratings

🗓️ 2 December 2021

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Do you have a fantasy you've always wanted to explore? Maybe your partner does as well, but it doesn't 'match up' with yours. In this episode we're diving into a five step process for dealing with different fantasies in relationships.   Links & Resources: Top 7 Fantasies PDF    If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode28 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I think a great example of this, and this is a super common fantasy.

0:03.9

You hear your partner say, oh, I've been fantasizing about having sex in public.

0:07.7

And then you immediately go like, oh my god, they want to like go down to the mall and

0:12.0

have sex.

0:13.0

Like, like, have sex on a park bench, like in front of Macy's or Nordstrom's or something.

0:19.0

Hello, and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:28.1

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:30.7

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:33.8

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:35.4

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for

0:39.6

improving yours.

0:41.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical

0:46.0

relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom

0:51.7

doors and so much more.

0:53.5

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:58.2

All right, babe, I have an idea for how we can start off this podcast episode.

1:02.4

Let's hear it.

1:03.4

Can you sing us a little bit of Mariah Carey's fantasy?

1:06.8

Sweet sweet fantasy baby, I don't know the other words.

1:13.8

Oh, the sentence you know.

1:16.8

Sweet.

1:17.8

I just, I can't hit the first note.

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