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Pillow Talks

Episode 28: So Your Partner Told You Their Fantasy... And You're Not Into It

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 2 December 2021

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Do you have a fantasy you've always wanted to explore? Maybe your partner does as well, but it doesn't 'match up' with yours. In this episode we're diving into a five step process for dealing with different fantasies in relationships.

Transcript

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0:00.0

I think a great example of this, and this is a super common fantasy.

0:03.9

You hear your partner say, oh, I've been fantasizing about having sex in public.

0:07.7

And then you immediately go like, oh my god, they want to like go down to the mall and

0:12.0

have sex.

0:13.0

Like, like, have sex on a park bench, like in front of Macy's or Nordstrom's or something.

0:19.0

Hello, and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:28.1

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:30.7

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:33.8

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:35.4

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for

0:39.6

improving yours.

0:41.2

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical

0:46.0

relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom

0:51.7

doors and so much more.

0:53.5

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:58.2

All right, babe, I have an idea for how we can start off this podcast episode.

1:02.4

Let's hear it.

1:03.4

Can you sing us a little bit of Mariah Carey's fantasy?

1:06.8

Sweet sweet fantasy baby, I don't know the other words.

1:13.8

Oh, the sentence you know.

1:16.8

Sweet.

1:17.8

I just, I can't hit the first note.

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