If your husband's having an affair, should you iron his clothes before he goes to his mistress?

How can you tell if your husband is a narcissist? Wait, wait, I haven't finished the intro.

And how do you make decisions in an egalitarian marriage if you disagree?

Hello, I'm Sheila Ray Gregor from bearmerage.com.

That was a wild, cold launch.

Healthy evidence-based biblical device through sex life and your marriage.

And we're going to be doing a bunch

of reader questions. Plus, Keith and I are going to respond to, yes, indeed, that ironing question

that came up from a viral video last week. Before we get to that, we were going to do an interview

today and the sound didn't work. So we're recording this like last minute, Rebecca and me. And we were up all night. We were up until like a quarter to two in the

morning because we had our federal election last night. And we were all serving as

scrutiners for different polls. And so we were up really late. And yeah, it's been a night. And so

we're tired. And so we're tired.

And so we thought, hey, why don't we just go on Instagram?

And at the last minute, since our plans fell through and ask people for questions.

So that's what we're going to do.

I'm actually looking forward to it. Again, I have to say that cold open was a wild one to not know what was coming.

Because I didn't know what they talked about already when I'm running on three hours of sleep and a lot of caffeine. And a lot

of caffeine. That was, we're still processing that. Okay. Okay. Talking about processing.

Instagram. Yes. So we, so we asked on Instagram and so many of you said it some great questions,

which we're going to tackle. We had such good feedback from our last, you know, ask me anything. So we thought this would be fun to do again. And before we get to

Keith and me and that Iron-A thing, we want to say thank you to our sponsor for this podcast, Saving Face,

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