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Episode 264: Dating Red Flags, Deal Breakers, and Worst First Date Locations

AsianBossGirl

Melody, Helen, and Janet

Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Careers, Business

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 22 March 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

As you navigate the dating world, it’s important to know what you’re looking for and to watch out for those green, beige, and red flags. We’ve had our fair share of red flag experiences that have taught us more about ourselves and what we’re unwilling to compromise on. If a guy isn’t super action-oriented, or if someone doesn’t want to have kids, these could be major red flags, or even deal breakers for a relationship. And what about red flags when it comes to 1st date locations? Zoos and buffets are off the table for us, but what if someone asked us to be their plus-one to a wedding?! Would you go to a wedding for a 1st date? Let us know in the comments! __________________________________________ Hosts: Melody Cheng, Janet Wang, Helen Wu Editor: Michelle Hsieh Contributing Editor: Haemee Kang __________________________________________ P A R T N E R S • Hiya: Get 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/ABG • Blueland: Receive 15% off your first order at Blueland.com/ABG • Shopify: Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/abg • Pampers: For trusted protection, trust Pampers, the #1 pediatrician recommended brand. • BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG __________________________________________ C O N N E C T W I T H U S • Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook • Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here • Shoutouts: Give a shoutout on the podcast here • Email: [email protected] __________________________________________ S U P P O R T U S • Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com • Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support • More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to A.B.G. Asian Boss Girl, a podcast for the modern day Asian American woman. My sweater is. We are. Are you? Yeah, I am. What are is?

0:23.4

Are you?

0:24.4

Yeah I am.

0:26.4

Sorry I actually love love so let's go.

0:28.1

You do. Mel loves love.

0:30.0

Since we are in this phase of Prepping Janet to get back onto the dating scene, if you haven't listened to episode 261,

0:37.0

that is an episode where we talked about how to flirt, which is the foundation of romance, right?

0:43.0

For today's episode, we wanted to talk about how

0:45.6

now that we are women in our 30s,

0:47.8

we kind of have a better sense of who we are.

0:50.0

What we bring to the table, what we expect

0:51.8

our partners to bring to the table as well,

0:54.2

what we don't want to compromise on in terms of values, in our partner, and in love.

0:58.8

So we're going to talk about that today.

1:00.7

Looking back at our dating experiences, it's interesting to see how much what we looked for and love has evolved. Funny how a few years can just change a whole perspective.

1:08.0

Today we're talking about dealmakers, deal breakers, and those kind of questionable beige flags to those red flags.

1:14.6

Let's get into it.

1:15.9

Oh my I just did this.

1:18.0

Let's get into it.

1:19.3

Okay.

1:20.3

So let's start from the top. You're on a first date. What are red flags on our first

1:26.4

date versus deal breakers? Actually do we feel like those are the same thing

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