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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 248: Big City Woman Changes Her Mind

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 13 March 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

You’re not bound to the thing you thought you wanted. If you want more (or less, or different), let them know. You can’t avoid revealing feelings and risking rejection, but it’s never as scary as you think—and it can be so worth it. If it doesn’t work, you can always go back to your hoe phase. That’s eternal. (Be warned: y’all asked for tangents, and we delivered.)  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:29.4

Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all relationship

0:36.6

advice you don't want to hear.

0:38.2

My name is Sierra Tomolder.

0:40.4

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

0:41.4

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is changing her mind about what she wants.

0:47.0

Ooh, sounds like a Hallmark movie.

0:50.0

You know what I mean?

0:51.0

Big City Woman goes back to her small town roots and changes her mind about what

0:56.3

she wants. That's the vibe that is the vibe but before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

1:09.0

No, we are not professionals. We are not trained in this. are not perfect or I don't know mentally

1:14.6

sound so please take our advice as you see fit I'm in a mood today we're only here

1:21.6

to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding

1:26.0

and maybe some laughs on the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing

1:30.0

experience that is love.

1:33.4

All right, Sam, what's our check-in topic for today?

1:36.2

Okay, our check-in topic is from a listener.

1:39.8

In fact, avid listener is their name,

1:42.8

pronouns she, her writing from Indiana.

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