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Bare Marriage

Episode 243: Modesty vs. Vanity: Maybe We Need to Shift the Conversation!

Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Marriage, Social Sciences, Science, Relationships, Sex, Christianity, Wife, Religion & Spirituality, Mother, Society & Culture, Advice, Family

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 July 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

The evangelical church spends a lot of time giving modesty messages to girls. But we hardly ever talk about vanity--even though the Bible condemns it. Could it be that in all our talk about modesty, we're inadvertently promoting vanity? And perhaps we can't call out vanity, because our messages to boys essentially enable vanity. Join Rebecca and Sheila as we hash this one out!With thanks to our sponsor:If church was your place of deepest hurt, can you find peace and healing with Christ? Check...

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast, I'm Sheila Reg

0:07.0

Gregwar from Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila Reg

0:17.0

Reagwar from Bear Marriage.com when we like to talk about healthy evidence-based

0:17.6

biblical advice for your sex life and your marriage and I'm joined today by my

0:21.5

daughter Rebecca Lindenbach.

0:23.0

Hello, hello.

0:24.0

And you are the co-author of the Great Sex Rescue,

0:26.8

and she deserves better.

0:28.2

One of the co-authors, our other is, of course,

0:30.4

the amazing Joanna Swatsky.

0:32.2

And today, we're actually going to talk about

0:35.0

something that you and I have been talking about because you raised the issue.

0:38.3

Yes. And that is what if the reason that we talk about modesty so much in the

0:45.2

evangelical church is that we can't talk about vanity? Yes and you said this on our

0:51.3

patron group and I was like oh myosh, we need to talk about that.

0:55.0

Well, what you actually did was you like, oh my gosh, I need to tag Becca in this so she sees it and

0:58.7

then she realized that I was the one who posted it.

1:00.7

Yes, exactly.

1:02.0

And our patron group is a wonderful place and so before we jump

1:05.2

into this very important conversation we want to say thank you to our patrons and I've actually

1:10.6

met with a couple in the summer it's been fun as they've been driving through.

1:13.7

And yeah, we just, we feel like friends.

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