Episode 23: Living Life Unhidden with Robert Kandell
The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Kate Anthony
4.4 • 575 Ratings
🗓️ 3 December 2018
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
I am really happy to welcome Robert Kandell as today's guest. Rob has authored a book, called unHIDDEN - A Book for Men and Those Who Are Confused By Them, that will be available very soon. In the meantime, you can download a sample chapter on his website. I did, and something that really struck me about it was the idea of 'coming out'. On the show today Rob explains how you can bridge the communication gap between men and women and really up-level the conversation. He also explains what it is to live an unhidden life and specifically what that means to him. So listen in and find out what Rob has to share about his revolutionary idea of living life unhidden.
Rob, who is also an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer, has done a lot of different things. He worked in corporate America, started a business, and owned a small computer shop before going on to build an international eight-figure business based on relationship, intimacy, and sexuality. Rob currently runs a successful consulting firm that is focused on helping small businesses become marketable and profitable. For the last fourteen years, Rob's mission has been to help men find themselves and use their internal power to live their best lives. Rob is the host of the well-known podcast, Tuff Love. Listen in today to find out how it's possible for you to have a life way beyond the life you're living now!
Show Highlights:
- Robert gives a rundown of what it means to live an unhidden life.
- Why you really need to be smart about the way you live your unhidden life.
- Robert's recommendation for how to live an unhidden life.
- Your whole life can grow on one decision to change your status quo.
- The story of how one honest conversation with his wife in 1998 changed his whole life.
- Creating a conversation path for the truth to be told- and rewarded.
- Opening One Taste, an organization about relationship intimacy and sexuality.
- How to bridge the communication gap between men and women and up-level the conversation.
- How to know when it's time to change.
- Taking 100% responsibility in your communication.
- A different approach to relationship.
- The difference between the masculine and the feminine in communication.
- What a guy can do to get back into a woman's good graces.
- 6000 years of habits and 50 years of epic change for men.
- We're seeing an epic change in terms of what masculinity used to be, and what it is now.
Resources:
Recommended books:
Angry White Men: American Masculinity at the End of an Era by Michael Kimmel
End of Men: And the Rise of Women by Hanna Rosin
Man, Interrupted: Why Young Men are Struggling & What We Can Do About It by Philip Zimbardo
Website & Social Media Links:
Website: https://www.robertkandell.com
Email: robert@kandellconsulting.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kandellconsulting /
https://www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Robertkandell @Robertkandell
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ @robert.kandell
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertkandell/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to another episode of the Divorce Survival Guide podcast, where we have real, honest, smart, and sometimes even hilarious conversations about co-parenting, separation, and divorce, and all that goes along with that. |
| 0:18.9 | I'm Kate Anthony, your divorce survival guide, certified |
| 0:22.0 | life and relationship coach, and happily divorced mom who helps women decide if they should |
| 0:26.9 | stay in or leave their marriages and then guides them through the process one step at a time. |
| 0:33.8 | Hey everyone. Thank you so much for spending this hour with me. I'm really excited about my guest, |
| 0:41.0 | but before I introduce him, I wanted to let you know about a couple things going on over here. |
| 0:47.4 | The first is that we are in the final week of my 12-week program. Should I stay or should I go? This was the beta run. And I've had 12 |
| 0:59.3 | women going through this with me. And they have been so dedicated. And they have been getting |
| 1:04.9 | so much out of this program. I literally, you know, when you create stuff like this, |
| 1:09.8 | you never really know how it's going to land. |
| 1:11.2 | And so that's why you do a beta test, right? |
| 1:14.1 | And I just, I'm thrilled. |
| 1:17.3 | I'm so excited for how, you know, not how well the program has been going for me, but I mean, obviously, I'm very thrilled about that. |
| 1:25.2 | But more than that, I'm really, really, really |
| 1:28.1 | excited about the transformation that these 12 women are making and the community that they have |
| 1:33.9 | created together. And I'll tell you, you know, one of the things that I have resisted in doing a |
| 1:40.3 | group program with stuff like this is around this kind of work is that most people say to me, |
| 1:44.9 | yeah, but, you know, I don't want to do group work because my stuff is too private. It's too |
| 1:48.1 | personal. It's, um, you know, I just don't feel comfortable in groups, whatever. And a lot of these |
| 1:53.8 | women actually felt the same way when we started. And one of the things that they have said consistently |
| 2:00.5 | throughout is how grateful they are to be going |
| 2:03.1 | through this process with other women. Because as unique as you think your situation is, trust me, |
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