Why are you always so needy?

Welcome to the to Love Honor and Vacuum podcast.

I'm Sheila Ray Greguar, your host from to love honor and vacuum.

com where we like to talk about how to make marriage less of a

to-do list and more of a passionate adventure.

And today I want to talk about that question.

Why is it that so often we feel like our spouses are so terribly needy or that they feel that

we are so terribly needy?

We all have emotional needs, things that we just need in order to feel emotionally

healthy and complete all of us have that it's not a bad thing emotions are good things and so today I want to look at how we can help fill up our

spouses love tank, like how we can help them feel as if their emotional needs are getting

met.

And then I also want to look at how this understanding of emotional needs

can be used to help us resolve conflict.

I was talking about this this week on the blog.

We're trying to get super practical in the month of June

and look at specific things that we can do to help feel closer in our marriage, just little things

that we can incorporate into our lives which can help us feel

close because what often happens is that this drift starts and often that drift

is just from basic misunderstandings but because you feel misunderstood, the heart of misunderstanding

often is that we feel unloved.

When your spouse doesn't understand you, when your spouse attributes things to you that you didn't really mean, when your spouse

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