Episode 220: Why is Emerson Eggerichs Afraid of Women Talking? A Deep Dive into Love & Respect

Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Marriage, Social Sciences, Science, Relationships, Sex, Christianity, Wife, Religion & Spirituality, Mother, Society & Culture, Advice, Family

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🗓️ 18 January 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Emerson Eggerichs’ reel where he talks about relationships https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxL4Lm6pDo7/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Our summary of the issues with Love & Respect https://baremarriage.com/2023/01/summary-problems-love-and-respect-emerson-eggerichs/

Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect https://baremarriage.com/2020/01/open-letter-focus-on-the-family-love-respect-emerson-eggerichs/

(All of our other posts are linked there)

Our podcast looking at the way he downplayed abuse in a sermon series at Houston First Baptist Church https://baremarriage.com/2021/03/podcast-on-emerson-eggerichs-gaslighting-emotional-abuse-victims-and-stop-seeing-women-as-dangerous/

Our look at how Emerson Eggerichs misuses Scripture in Love & Respect

https://baremarriage.com/2023/01/emerson-eggerichs-twists-scripture-love-respect/

The problems with hierarchy in marriage (Keith’s Danvers statement series) https://baremarriage.com/2023/06/danvers-statement-series-complementarian-problem-1-men-dominating-their-wives/

Check out Andrew Bauman’s Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma: https://christiancc.org/

Andrew J. Bauman’s website https://andrewjbauman.com, or follow him on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/AndrewJamesBauman

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregoer from Bear Marriage.
0:13.0	Where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your sex life in your marriage.
0:17.5	And I am joined today by my husband Keith.
0:20.0	Hey everybody. As we have our annual January look at Emerson Eggrich. You know last
0:27.3	week we started off 2024 with our podcast on Let Men be men and how so much of evangelical marriage advice actually makes men into
0:40.1	It's in tantalizing. Yeah, it really isn't fantas. And we think men can be more than that.
0:45.0	We think men can be better than that.
0:47.0	And so we kind of have like a three-part series on Let Men Be Men,
0:50.0	and this is kind of part two. We're going to do one next week as well but you know every
0:54.1	January since 2019 we like to talk about the book Love and Respect. Yes because
1:00.6	that's what started me on this whole journey,
1:02.6	was reading love and respect for the first time.
1:05.5	In January of 2019, I just hadn't read a lot
1:07.9	of other Christian marriage books,
1:09.4	even though I was blogging about marriage,
1:10.8	because I didn't want to plagiarize,
1:12.2	and I kind of figured they
1:13.3	love Jesus we love Jesus were all saying the same thing and then I read love and
1:17.2	respect and it was like a nuclear bomb went off in my living room because I
1:20.9	realized how dangerous this book was and that put us on this
1:24.2	journey of writing the great sex rescue of doing our research of actually being able to
1:29.3	measure how harmful the messages in books like this are.
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