Hello and welcome back to the Self-Healer Soundboard.

On today's episode, we're going to talk about assumptions and the stories that we tell

ourselves.

This episode is actually inspired by my own personal life and my own personal relationship

with Ugena.

As I began to witness a really recurrent assumption that I had been making for quite some time.

So for the course of several months of our relationship, I kept having this idea that

I and our relationship, our personal relationship, was not a priority.

I kept seeing moments in our day and of course for those of you who are not aware, Ugena and

I live together, we work together, we're in a personal relationship together.

So there's a lot of togetherness.

I kept finding myself seeing all of these moments where as far as I saw, at least, Ugena

were prioritizing everything else.

It was work.

It was all of this other things that happened in our life on a very daily basis.

In my opinion, kept getting your attention before myself.

And I noticed in my own mind, because this is where we create our assumptions, I kept

creating this story, I kept revisiting this story that I am not a priority.

And of course, the more I looked for evidence, which I did very frequently, of how I wasn't

a priority for you, the more I saw that evidence.

And of course, feeling like you're not a priority to someone that you love and care about

was really, really upsetting.

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