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Gender Reveal

Episode 185: Caro De Robertis

Gender Reveal

Tuck Woodstock

Lgbtq, Documentary, Queer, Personal Journals, Gender, Nonbinary, Society & Culture, Genderqueer, Transgender, Trans

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2025

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Tuck chats with author Caro De Robertis (they/them). Topics include:

  • Caro’s oral history work with trans, genderqueer, and two-spirit elders of color
  • Why Spanish can be more gender-affirming than English 
  • How Caro’s knowledge of South American dictatorships informs their perspective on US politics 
  • Why Black trans women were encouraged to detransition during the AIDS crisis (and other stories from elders)
  • Plus: Butch babies, genderfuck, and staying free (!)

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This Week in Gender: We share info about US border crossings. 

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Find Caro at caroderobertis.com. So Many Stars is available for pre-order now.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional music: “Huffalo” “Four Count” & “Nine Count” by Blue Dot Sessions
Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20)

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to gender reveal, a podcast where we hopefully get a little bit closer to understanding what the hell gender is.

0:22.1

I'm your host and resident gender detective, Tuck Woodstock.

0:34.2

Hey, everyone. I hope you've all been hanging in there.

0:37.3

Today in the show, I am very excited to share my conversation with author Caro de Robertoz.

0:42.3

Caro is a novelist. They're a translator. And most importantly, for our purposes, they have a new book coming out next month. It's called So Many Stars. And it's an oral history of transgender, queer, non-binary, and two-spirit elders of color.

0:59.3

In this episode, we talk a bunch about Caro's personal gender revolutions and their relationship to gender in English and in Spanish. There's a way that we speak our own gender into being,

1:05.7

just talking about ourselves, which is different from English and English pronouns. There's things

1:10.1

that we request of others in

1:11.5

their language about us. Then, of course, we talk a bunch about the book and the way that the

1:16.2

elders interviewed in the book relate to their own gender and to drag and the future, as well as

1:22.8

their experiences with the AIDS crisis and, you know, like various high-stakes situations they've experienced.

1:29.2

You know, some people did it, and some people said I'd rather die.

1:32.8

We also talk about Cartero's experience with dictatorships because, like, you know.

1:37.4

But before we get to that, I have some very exciting news.

1:40.8

Two things, actually.

1:42.1

The first is that I'm sure you're familiar with gender conceal.

1:45.0

It's our bonus podcast available exclusively for patrons at patreon.com slash gender. This month,

1:50.7

we have an extra special gender conceal episode coming out where McKenzie and I answered a bunch of

1:56.1

questions that were submitted by the patrons. And I haven't edited it it yet but I remember it being like extremely fun

2:02.6

and walking away being like yeah I think that wrote pretty well so if you want some extra bonus

2:06.6

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2:13.2

for only $5 a month you get access to every gender conceal episode we've ever made,

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