Episode 17: How To Allow Yourself To Receive In The Bedroom

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2021

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In order to enjoy sex, we have to receive. Whether it's time, attention, love, or energy, there are so many aspects of great sex are tied into receiving. Your ability to receive can affect many things, like your ability to be present in the moment, feel pleasure, be emotionally connected to a partner, and especially to orgasm!

In today's episode, Vanessa and Xander talk about how you can get more comfortable with the idea of receiving in the bedroom.

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0:00.0	If you don't deserve it, if you don't deserve to receive in the bedroom, what is it that you
0:06.4	do deserve then? Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. We're your host Vanessa
0:18.1	and Sandra Marin. I'm a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and I'm just a regular dude.
0:24.4	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for
0:29.3	improving yours. So make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable
0:34.4	sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind
0:40.5	closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:47.7	Imagine this. Your partner comes up to you right now and they say, tonight, babe, I want it to be
0:54.9	all about you. Let me look you up and down until you say stop. Let me play with your body baby
1:02.9	until you get real hot. Let me do all the things I want you to do. You want me to do.
1:10.9	I am still not sure what's on with you. Tonight, babe, I want to get for Ricky with you.
1:16.8	We might need our podcast engineer to auto tune that to the appropriate tune. I feel like maybe I
1:27.8	know what song it is, but it was so off key. I'm very unsure. Well, you know, you've been singing
1:34.1	in the episode so I had to chime in there. I am so happy that you did that because I don't know
1:40.0	if anyone listening has any idea of what an angelic voice Vanessa has. Beautiful. I actually
1:46.6	cannot remember what song that is. It just popped into my head about, like, focusing on you,
1:53.1	with your body baby. So, students at DM on Instagram, Vanessa, we're in therapy. What song is that?
2:02.2	Do you know it? Did you really enjoy my musical interlude? So anyways, I do have a memory of
2:08.2	very early on in our relationship. I think that you told me, like, I just need you to know that I have
2:14.0	a horrible voice. Like, I can't sing. Really? I like it to give a disclaimer. Yeah, I remember
2:20.8	receiving a disclaimer from you, because it was kind of like, I don't know, I would like sing a
2:25.0	longness stuff in the car. And like, maybe I didn't hear you do that so much. I think you're like,
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