You got in all the sex for the next month or two months or three months.

Yeah, and then if we don't like that it means something something must be wrong.

If it's not great then maybe I don't maybe I don't miss them that much or they don't miss me that much and what's up with that.

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It's the sex education you wish you'd had. How do you keep the spark alive in a long distance relationship?

That is the question we are trying to answer today.

I know it can feel hard enough in just a regular old relationship

so a long distance relationship is like you know we're upping the stakes here.

Upping the distance. Upping the distance, wow. So we have been asked to do this episode for a very long time and to be honest I didn't really realize just how many couples are actually in long-distance relationships.

Yeah, I guess I kind of I'll take responsibility for the fact that I just thought of this as like,

oh this is like younger people.

People in college. Like my boyfriends abroad. Yeah. First job out of college. We went to

different cities. Yeah but I was pretty shocked when we started doing some

research for this episode and

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