Expect that you are going to develop feelings for other people.

Is that something that you're willing to handle?

Is that something that you're willing to talk about,

to maybe get therapy about, to know that your own feelings are going to, you know, in response to your partner

developing feelings are going to come up.

It's like a, it's a price of admission kind of. Hello and

Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.

We're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin.

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience and I'm just a

regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you

step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical

relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

Should we open up our relationship?

That is the question that. That is the question I was not expecting you to ask me live on a

podcast. No that is the question that you the listener are asking to us, the podcast hosts, Meta.

So we put up a question box on Instagram and we said,

are you considering opening up your relationship so that you can be

with us? No that is not an option. Now we wanted to do an advice style episode about open relationships.

We've previously done an episode about like general guidelines and

tips for open relationships.

It's one of the earliest like episodes we ever did, episode 31 if you want to scroll all the way back

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