Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Okay, there is you, there is a person you choose to love, your partner, and then there is what

you guys are investing in, building, which is the relationship relationship and I believe that the relationship

assuming it is healthy love and you choose wisely that and by the way let me say that there's no such thing as a perfect relationship.

So when I say healthy, I'm just talking about overall if the relationship is a healthy space,

not toxic or abusive. then the relationship as you guys invest and build can become

greater than its parts, meaning bigger than you and your partner.

And I think this idea is fascinating,

because if that's the case, can the relationship itself

be a container that sharpens and promotes individual growth and if so then

can we use our relationship as like an engine to

Rebuild ourselves right can we use our relationship and trust that whatever we're building is going to be the prescription, the program, the

catalyst that sparks change in us. I believe you can 100 percent, I've actually

experienced this. And so I want to talk to you about it. Now

before we get into this real quick I just want to say thank you to everyone who has

purchased my book.

What I'm finding really interesting is a lot of women are buying this book.

I wrote it for men, but women are really responding to it, not just to give to their boyfriends and

husbands but actually using the concepts for themselves so that is amazing

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