Welcome to ABG, Asian Boss Girl, a podcast for the modern-day Asian-American woman.

My name is Mel, and I'm Janet.

Hello, everyone.

Uh, we heard that, you know, it seems like people are a fan of, uh, our dating episodes,

or our most recent update about our dating adventures.

Yeah, people seem to be really resonating with content that talks about love,

both the fun and not-so-fun parts.

Um, so today we thought we would continue that topic, seeing as how we're still in the month of February,

and it is still the month of love or no love, depending on what side you're on.

So we did a, um, ask on our Instagram and ask if you all need questions about dating.

Um, so we're in a spend some time today talking about that, and answering some of those questions to share our perspective.

Uh, before we dive into this, I thought this is really fitting for this episode.

So I was just talking to Janet, and, you know, obviously we're both on the dating app, swiping, and, you know, trying to get on dates and stuff.

And as I was swiping, a familiar face popped up, and I was like, well, wait a second.

And then I asked Janet, I was like, hey, are you over blank?

Because I do think, so this person, I popped up on my, on my hinge, was so much you dated earlier last year.

And for me, as a girlfriend, you want to kind of spill the tea a little bit when you see something interesting,

but the same time I want to make sure your girlfriend is okay to mentally okay to receive the tea, right?

And she was like, no, I'm totally fine. I was like, cool.

So I was on my hinge, and I saw his profile pump up, and I was like, huh, from what I remember, Janet telling me,

he was around 38. Yeah, yeah, he was, he was pushing, pushing towards 40, definitely in his late 30s.

But on the app, it didn't say that. It said he was 33. And I'm like, what the freak? This is not what I,

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