Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue

We Gotta Thing - Exploring Non-Monogamy

wegottathing

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 737 Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2026

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

We've talked about jealousy, we've talked about body image. We've discussed learning to flirt and being corageous in the lifestyle. But beneath the surface we all have insecurities about ourselves at the root of all these things! In this episode we share what we beleive are the causes of our insecurities, how they manifest themselves in our lifestlye journey and share tools to help overcome them to find freedom in being yourself and enjoying others!

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Here is some background on the four Luxe Music Studio songs previewed during this episode (with permission):

"I Like to Share": We wanted a song that had an anthem-like chorus that we could imagine being played at lifestyle clubs, events and resorts. While the song focuses on a FFM experience, the theme stands on its own as a celebration of trust, non-jealousy and truly enjoying seeing your partner experience pleasure with others. I find it especially arousing, being bisexual, seeing a woman I find sexy and attractive having sexual fun with my husband. I sometimes like to direct the action so this song celebrates that aspect as well.

"Dressed to Undress": We wrote this song to simply celebrate dressing up in sexy attire for the explicit purpose of taking it off during playtime experiences. We love that most of the clubs have themed nights where I can explore all types of sexy outfits for the sole purpose of feeling erotic and arousing others. We love the Halloween parties especially and still need to write a fun song about a swinger Halloween party.

"Playtime": This is a track where we decided to scale back on the innuendos and get straight to the point: Celebrating pure, hedonistic, hardcore sex of all types. No romance, just chasing lust and pleasure without apology. The rhythm, speed, vibe and intensity of the track reinforces this theme.

"Your Pleasure is Mine": A celebration of same room, full swap swinging. We really wanted to emphasize the point where a swinging couple with maturity, trust, and experience, can truly savor and enjoy the pleasure of watching your lover experience sex with another person while you do the same. A place where we think all swinging couples strive to be, one built on trust, open communication, honesty, clear boundaries, and respect.

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0:00.0	This podcast contains explicit language and content and is for mature audiences only.
0:06.0	Hey, you teenagers out there, if you're under 18, this show is more for your parents.
0:11.0	So now that you have that mental picture stuck in your head, put some music on and get back to doing your homework.
0:17.0	We are a long-time married couple who's decided to chronicle our personal adventures
0:21.6	and share our sex-positive discussions as we navigate our way through the swinging lifestyle.
0:26.6	Care to join us. I like to share. I like to share. Mm-hmm, yeah. Ooh-hmm.
0:40.3	I like to shift.
0:43.3	Oh, yeah.
0:47.3	Mm-hmm.
0:49.3	Mm-hmm.
0:53.3	Let's set the scene. Desire burns right from the star. Hello, everyone.
0:57.0	Hello, everyone, I'm Mr. Jones.
1:00.0	And I'm Mrs. Jones, if we want to welcome you to episode 153 of the We Got a Thing podcast.
1:05.0	Your insecurity is your issue.
1:09.0	It's kind of harsh.
1:10.0	Well, I was just looking at you because you're my podcast partner.
1:14.1	But before we talk about that and catch you up with what's been going on,
1:17.4	you probably noticed our intro music was a little bit different.
1:20.4	And we have to thank our friends from Lux Music Studios, L-U-X-E music studios.
1:27.0	We got a letter an email from them, and this couple was deciding how they wanted to share
1:34.3	their lifestyle experience with others, since not doing a podcast or being a content producer.
1:41.2	But they decided to write music, and it is erotic. It's not...
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