I'm going to go ahead and say this is one that 99.9% of women just do not like.

I've actually never heard a woman say this turns me on.

And I think the reason for this is it makes it feel like sex is just about

you as the penis owner.

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Today's episode all started with a question that I was very curious to ask to our

Instagram community. What do you secretly wish your partner would stop doing during sex.

Ooh, we go in there.

I just had this idea for that question.

I was like, you know what?

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