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Episode 136: Loving as Christ Taught–Using the Four Loves (Casey Griffiths)

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BYU Religious Education

Religion & Spirituality, Education, Christianity

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Church history and doctrine professor Casey Paul Griffiths discusses his book The Four Loves and the Latter-day Saints: The Nature of Love in All Facets of Our Lives. Drawing on C.S. Lewis's framework and restored gospel teachings, he explains the four forms of love—familial, friendly, romantic, and divine—and why understanding their differences matters for Latter-day Saints.

Professor Griffiths highlights the limitations of the English phrase "I love you," noting how it carries multiple meanings that other languages express more precisely. He teaches that distinguishing between these types of love deepens our understanding of ourselves, our relationships, and God. Using scriptural and prophetic insights, he shows how divine love forms the foundation of all human connections.

Throughout the episode, Griffiths offers practical ways to apply each form of love, helping listeners strengthen marriages, friendships, families, and their relationship with God. Ultimately, the conversation provides an inspiring look at what it means to love as Christ taught and how a clearer grasp of the "four loves" can elevate every relationship in our lives.

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0:00.0

Hello, why religion friends, John Hilton here. I love my wife. I love pizza. And I love you,

0:06.5

dear listener. Each of those sentences uses the same word love, but love means something different

0:13.0

in each context. In English, we use the word love for just about everything from deep

0:18.2

relationships to deep dish pepperoni. But ancient thinkers and ancient

0:22.7

scriptures knew that there were different aspects to love, romantic love, friendly love, familial love,

0:29.3

and divine love. C.S. Lewis captures this idea beautifully in his classic book, The Four Loves,

0:36.5

a timeless look at how human affection points

0:39.0

towards heaven. But there's still more to learn about The Four Loves through the lens of

0:44.0

Latter-day Revelation, insights that expand and deepen each of those loves.

0:49.3

Joseph Smith would come along and say, the same sociology that exists among us here will exist

0:53.8

among us there. You can

0:54.8

fall into romantic love. You can have deep friendships and your family relationships, maybe most

1:00.6

importantly of all, will endure into the next life. And so Eros is actually something that's

1:05.7

exalted and lifted up by Latter-day Saint Doctrine. We should probably be the most romantic people

1:10.8

on earth because we believe that the universe is led by a couple, the loving it up by Latter-day Saint Doctrine, we should probably be the most romantic people on Earth

1:11.2

because we believe that the universe is led by a couple that love each other.

1:15.9

In this episode of Why Religion, we'll explore how restoration teachings provide insights

1:20.5

into the four types of love. At this time of year, we especially remember the supreme

1:26.4

love of the Father who sent his son to Earth

1:29.1

and of Jesus Christ who willingly laid down his life for each of us.

1:34.2

Today, we'll see how the love of Jesus Christ can shine brighter in each of our lives

1:39.5

and relationships.

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