Aggression is one of the last dirty words in our culture.

You can be crass, you can be rude, you can even be profane, but, oh, aggressive, don't be

aggressive, except it's wrong, dead wrong.

I promise you nothing of meaning and transcendence will come into your life passively.

It's time for you to get into the arena to push back against a passive, mediocre existence.

I'm Brian Toam.

This is the aggressive life. You know what I'm tired of hearing.

I'm tired of hearing.

I'm just not a disciplined person.

I'm tired of hearing it.

Actually, it normally goes more like this. I'm just not a disciplined person.

When I hear that, what the person's basically inferring is, if you mapped out my genome, I don't have the discipline gene.

I just don't have the capacity to do things that are good for my future.

I tell you what, if they find out that you don't have the discipline gene,

they're also going to find out you don't have the aggressive gene.

There is no discipline gene and there is no aggressive gene.

There's nothing in your DNA that's going to make you want a better life. There's nothing in your DNA

that's going to make you want a better life.

There's nothing your DNA

that's going to make you unsatisfied with status quo.

There's nothing in your biology

that's going to get you off your rumpus

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