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Honest confession, I'm too blunt, sometimes in personal relationships, and I'm also, I can be very hyperlogical and lawyerly when it's not appropriate in relationships.

Marriage, other relationships too, but like...

Yeah, I've had it.

I'm just kidding. It's going to throw you off your game. Well, I've had it. I'm just kidding.

It's going to throw you off your game now a little bit.

Well, you may step down because...

No, I really do. I struggle with that.

The thing is, like, you can use the Enneagram or Myers-Briggs or whatever.

We talked about this before where you can, like, say, well, that's just me.

I'm just

that way. And you got, you know, I'm just a five in my case or whatever. That's not good enough.

It's not good enough for me to just say, well, I'm on the autism spectrum, even though I am.

And I tell younger people who are on the spectrum of this too. It's like you can't just say that's it. I don't care.

You have to love people.

If you're somebody who's a Jesus follower,

you have to love people.

And that means I have to change.

That's everybody.

I got to change.

This whole thing's about changing.

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