Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Does your relationship have a chance? First let's define what a quote-unquote relationship means to you today? Not what it did when you were in your early 20s chasing the sticky

dynamics that stem from our childhood and old wounds and dysfunction. So here's the thing.

Basically, we have our definitions of love

before all the shit that went down, right?

Usually this is high school college, our 20s, when we thought love was only a feeling and we were losing ourselves

and other people.

Then we have our definitions of love,

pray journey after all the shuttered hearts and realizing that love is actually in fact

a choice and to build anything sustainable we have to be healthy humans.

So if you're in a place where love still means to sacrifice and not have a life and lose yourself

in someone else, then you got to go play that

shit out. There's no other answer except to experience it. You can't just read

about Healthy 11 books. You actually have to experience the bad

you know you have to go through the storm to come out and to know right you can't just if you

if you haven't had a lot of love experiences and this isn't an age thing, chances are you don't have any new definitions.

And because why would you right? We acquire, we earn, we create new

definitions because the old shit didn't work.

Right?

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