Episode 121: When She Wants It More: Navigating Mismatched Libidos When The Woman Has A Higher Drive

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Are you a woman who wants sex more than your male partner? All we see on TV, movies, and social media is men wanting it more, so if that’s not the case in your relationship, you may feel like something is horribly wrong.

But after polling our community, we found that almost half of male-female relationships have this dynamic! That has even been the case for us in seasons of our relationship.

We’re here to remove the shame, show you how normal it is for the woman to want sex more often, and tell you what to do to balance your libidos. Because mismatched sex drives - regardless of who has the higher drive - don’t need to be a dealbreaker.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Real life responses from men and women about how higher female libido affects them
The 4 ways couples accidentally make things worse
The single most overlooked step that could make a world of difference

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Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode121

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0:00.0	If you're not talking about it, it just becomes this elephant in the room,
0:04.1	and it becomes more and more awkward because you both know what's going on.
0:09.7	Like, you're not fooling anyone.
0:10.8	You're not fooling anybody.
0:12.4	Like, not talking about it is never the solution to anything in life.
0:24.3	Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.
0:27.6	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:29.1	And Zander Marin.
0:30.4	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:33.3	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:34.9	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques
0:39.2	for improving yours.
0:40.6	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,
0:45.2	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on
0:50.3	behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
0:53.4	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:56.0	Thanks to Dipsy for supporting Pillotox.
1:00.2	Get an extended 30-day free trial when you go to DipsyStories.com-pillow.
1:07.5	Thanks to Green Chef for their continuing support of Pillotox.
1:11.3	Eat Clean the Easy way with recipes that help support your wellness goals
1:15.0	without skimping on flavor.
1:17.0	Go to greenchef.com-60-pillow and use code 60-pillow.
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