And I imagine it can feel confusing, too, because you don't know, oh, is he serious or not?

No, we know. Like, we know you're trying to initiate. And so that's what makes it even more annoying,

because then when, when he's like, oh, just joking, I'm like, no, you're not. So it's like,

not only are you annoying me, but then you're trying to gaslight me, too.

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast. We're your host, Vanessa.

Anne Zander-Marin. I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

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and book a top-rated doctor. All right, Zander. Why don't you kick us off by singing some songs

about men?

That's it. All right. That's the right vibe for this, right? Why do men do this?

Why didn't I know that that was the one song that you would pick? I knew that you would pick

that song. Have we done that before? I don't know. This song before? I'm not sure, but I'm trying

to think of other men's songs and I'm struggling. It's fine. We'll just keep a

ditz-raining men. I really appreciate the commitment to the falsetto. I can't sing it in my

regular. It's raining men, hallelujah. I think that's what most men would do. It's raining men.

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