Episode 107: Saying Goodbye: Navigating Reunification as a Foster Parent
The Forgotten Podcast
The Forgotten Initiative
4.9 • 532 Ratings
🗓️ 16 November 2020
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
Saying goodbye to the child you've been caring for is one of the most heart-wrenching times as a foster parent. Every foster parent knows to prepare for this time, but that doesn't make the reality easy or the pain less.
As you prepare for them to make this transition well, it can be overwhelming to know what or how to do it. What are the right words to say? How do I help them navigate their feelings?
And then, if there are other children in the house who are staying—whether they are biological, adopted, or have a different case in foster care—they, too, have to navigate the hard goodbye.
So many hearts to care for, not to mention, your own.
Jenn has some incredible insight and practical tools to guide us towards these hard goodbyes with honor and intentionality.
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| 0:00.0 | meeting you right where you are on your foster care journey. |
| 0:04.6 | This is The Forgotten Podcast. |
| 0:08.7 | When we're not frank and honest, what we actually are doing is creating more anxiety for our |
| 0:13.8 | kiddos because, I mean, you can imagine as adults, right? |
| 0:17.1 | When you're like, something's going on, but I don't know what. |
| 0:19.5 | Your mind goes a million different directions. It's the same thing for our kids. And so when we aren't frank and honest, |
| 0:25.4 | we can actually really create a lot more anxiety for our kids. |
| 0:32.1 | Hey, it's Jamie Cabe. Welcome back to the Forgotten Podcast. If you are part of the foster care community, |
| 0:38.9 | passionate about serving or simply interested in learning more, we are here for you. |
| 0:45.3 | Today, my good friend Jen Hook joins me back on the podcast. As a former therapist, she gets it. |
| 0:50.9 | She understands that foster care comes with grief and loss. And today we're going to |
| 0:56.2 | talk about the hard goodbyes. Saying goodbye to the child you've been foster parenting is one of the most |
| 1:02.7 | heart-wrenching times as a foster parent. Every foster parent knows to prepare for this, |
| 1:08.8 | but that doesn't make it easy or hurt less. |
| 1:12.4 | As you prepare for them to make this transition well, it can be overwhelming to know what to do |
| 1:17.5 | and how to do it. What are the right words to say? How do I help them navigate their feelings? |
| 1:23.5 | And then if there are other children in the house who are staying, whether they're biological, |
| 1:28.0 | adopted, or have a different case in foster care, they too have to navigate the hard goodbye. |
| 1:34.1 | So many hearts to care for, not to mention your own. |
| 1:39.5 | Jen has some incredible insight and practical tools to guide us towards these hard goodbyes with honor |
| 1:45.8 | and intentionality. So be sure to head over to the forgottenpodcast.org after the conversation |
| 1:52.2 | to check out our show notes. And if you haven't yet, also sign up and receive our weekly |
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