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My boyfriend is getting a little too close to his old army buddy.

And I can't believe what I found on his phone.

Hey, what's so weird about two army buddies getting close and cozy?

You know, you got your, you got your drills.

Ooh.

What are they drilling?

Drills are important to be drills must be drill. You got to drill each other. That's right. That's part of army. Drilling each other is quintessential. Yeah. You know, you're wearing like cute matching uniforms. Adorable. That's freaking amazing. Yeah. You're climbing through the mud together. You're grunting.

Oh.

Right next to each other.

Uh-huh.

Uh-huh.

You're singing songs.

That's right. Left. Right. Left. My shoes are shot in my pants at top. My balls are swinging from left to right. You know? You got all these. Wow. I haven't heard of that. Apparently, I'm not familiar with the military because that's a new one for me. I, female 30, I have a boyfriend of three years.

We will call him Sam.

Oh, my. Oh, male 33. In the beginning, he lost his friend group because of a fight and he was pretty alone. But that wasn't really a problem as we were pretty happy together. Okay. Anyway, he was in the military years ago. And sometimes we talked about his time there and his buddy that we'll call Leo.

Leo. together. Okay. Anyway, he was in the military years ago. And sometimes we talked about his time there and his buddy that we'll call Leo, male 30. I sometimes made jokes about their gayness for each other as they were pretty close. Why, why foreshadow? A few months back, I wanted to surprise him and find Leo's contact as I thought it would be nice if they could talk again as they lost contact over the last 10 years. What a nice thing to do. Yeah, super nice. I found him on Facebook and gave him Sam's email and he was excited and thanked me and told me he would write him. He was excited. So excited. Sam was super happy to hear from him and he was excited to meet up with him. He asked me if I wanted to come with him, but I told him I could meet his buddy another time. They should use the time to talk and get to know each other after all those years. Okay. Everything seemed cool. And they sometimes went for beers, watch hockey games. Yeah. And they got really close again. I was so happy because he seemed to be less depressed and actually went out again. I actually met Leo once and we had breakfast together and he was a really nice guy. A month ago, I noticed they met up more often and as happy as I was, I was also a bit bummed because he had less time for me, but it felt selfish to tell himself. Then I noticed we were doing

it less. You know, we had been doing it three times a day sometimes. And we didn't do anything

for almost two weeks with two full-time jobs and my health problems. It was always weird to

schedule. But it's notice it happened less and less. Dang, they were getting in three times a day

with the jobs and everything. Maybe it's about work. Kudos. Dang, they were getting in three times a day with the jobs and everything.

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