meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Live Happy Now

EP74: Heather Shumaker - Raising Confident and Creative Kids

Live Happy Now

Live Happy LLC

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Health & Fitness:mental Health

4.7522 Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2016

⏱️ 23 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Heather Shumaker is a national speaker on parenting and early childhood topics and is the author of two renegade parenting books: It’s OK Not to Share...and Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids and It’s OK to Go Up the Slide. An advocate for free, unstructured play in homes and schools, she lives in northern Michigan with her family.

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Well, first of all, Heather, thank you so much for joining us.

0:11.8

I really, even just looking at the cover of the book, it's okay to go up the slide,

0:17.3

renegade rules for raising confident and creative kids.

0:20.5

I hearken back to my elementary school days and getting yelled at by teachers for trying to

0:24.6

climb up the slide like a little adventurer in first and second grade.

0:29.4

So it's bringing back happy memories just to start with.

0:32.7

Ah, good.

0:33.3

Yes, I think this book is written for adults who remember what it's like to be a kid and how we can support that.

0:41.5

Fantastic.

0:42.5

There are so many things that I want to get into, but one of them really jumped out at me right away,

0:49.5

and it's that we've been told all of our lives, don't talk to strangers,

0:53.2

and then I grew up to do like radio shows and broadcasts where I'm talking to hundreds of strangers a day.

0:59.6

You're saying, don't say don't talk to strangers.

1:02.9

Why?

1:03.2

Why is that a key tenant for you?

1:06.3

Yeah, well, as you say, we've been told that all our lives, but it doesn't work.

1:10.6

It doesn't keep kids safe.

1:12.7

And that's the number one reason why I'm suggesting doing something else.

1:16.6

They're finding that kids who have experience interacting with the world, which includes talking to people you don't know, people on the sidewalk as you're walking down the street or people at the grocery

1:27.6

store, the clerks, anybody who might be a stranger, the kids who grow up interacting with

1:33.8

people and not being terrified, not freezing when they come up to a stranger, actually

1:39.6

are safer.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Live Happy LLC, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Live Happy LLC and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.