EP295: Dr. Cotler on Attachment: What is it and how to foster a secure pattern with your child
The Mom Room
Renee Reina & Podcast Nation
4.8 • 602 Ratings
🗓️ 16 May 2023
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
EP295. Dr. Tanya Cotler is back to talk all things attachment. What is meant by attachment and having a secure attachment between mother and child? What is NOT attachment? How can we determine what someone's attachment pattern is? How would a securely attached, anxiously attached, and avoidantly attached child react in the strange situation experiment? What does the current research on attachment tell us about how attachment patterns develop? And, how we can understand the 70%/30% mismatch/match ratio that everyone is talking about.
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DR. TANYA COTLER
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| 0:49.5 | Welcome to Tuesday's Increable, Inquiazza episode with Dr. Tanya Kotler. |
| 0:57.6 | This is like a belated Mother's Day gift. |
| 1:00.5 | I hope everybody had a lovely Mother's Day. |
| 1:03.4 | I'm recording this before actual Mother's Day, so I can't tell you how mine went yet. |
| 1:07.7 | I'm sure it was fabulous. |
| 1:09.2 | We probably went to Good Lot, which is this outdoor brewery |
| 1:14.9 | near where we live. It's the cutest thing ever. They make their own beer. There's chickens running |
| 1:21.5 | around and it's like picnic tables and a food truck. It is always such an enjoyable place to go and Milo can run around. They have some |
| 1:30.0 | outdoor games. I just love it. So that's probably what we did unless it was super busy and we |
| 1:37.0 | couldn't get a table or something like that. But I'm hoping that's what we did. Look at me. It's like I'm |
| 1:43.0 | talking after the fact, but in the future hoping that's what we did. Look at me. It's like I'm talking after the fact, |
| 1:45.3 | but in the future, it's a weird concept. Anywho, this is one of the most incredible episodes. |
| 1:53.6 | It is jam-packed full of value. I feel like so many people online talk about attachment and they throw it around when they're talking |
| 2:02.9 | about different parenting things, but they don't actually understand what it is, how it's developed, |
| 2:08.6 | the actual science of attachment and not attachment parenting, which is a completely different thing, |
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