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The Mom Room

EP295: Dr. Cotler on Attachment: What is it and how to foster a secure pattern with your child

The Mom Room

Renee Reina & Podcast Nation

Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8602 Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2023

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

EP295. Dr. Tanya Cotler is back to talk all things attachment. What is meant by attachment and having a secure attachment between mother and child? What is NOT attachment? How can we determine what someone's attachment pattern is? How would a securely attached, anxiously attached, and avoidantly attached child react in the strange situation experiment? What does the current research on attachment tell us about how attachment patterns develop? And, how we can understand the 70%/30% mismatch/match ratio that everyone is talking about. RENEE REINA www.themomroom.com Instagram: @themomroompodcast | @thereneereina TikTok: @thereneereina Facebook Community Youtube: Renee Reina- The Mom Room Podcast DR. TANYA COTLER Instagram: @drcotler SPONSORS Little Spoon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:22.7

Kotler. This is like a belated Mother's Day gift. I hope everybody had a lovely Mother's Day. I'm recording

1:29.7

this before actual Mother's Day, so I can't tell you how mine went yet. I'm sure it was fabulous.

1:34.9

We probably went to Good Lot, which is this outdoor brewery near where we live. It's the cutest thing

1:43.6

ever. They make their own beer. There's chickens

1:47.1

running around and it's like picnic tables and a food truck. It is always such an enjoyable place to go.

1:54.3

And Milo can run around. They have some outdoor games. I just love it. So that's probably what we did

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