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My boyfriend dumped me during a family crisis.

Two years later, I found out he was lying about everything.

I want to know what he's lying about.

Buckle up, Reddit, because this is a long, wild ride.

All right, let's get into it.

My ex-30 male and I, 28 female, had this on and off again thing for years, but the last

five years were pretty steady.

Okay.

He told me early on, like three months in, that he had attachment issues.

Every breakup was because things got too much for him, but he always came crawling back.

Seems healthy.

Seems like nothing will go wrong. This isn't a red flag. Just ignore it. And I always took him back. One time I even started seeing someone else, but he begged me to come back. Swearing therapy had helped him grow. I doubt it. By the way, this comes from Anxious Panglin 74-71 on the OK Storytime subreddit.

So we managed a long-distant relationship for five years.

Before that, we lived close together for four years.

We've been together for a total of nine years.

He always had excuses for not moving in together, couldn't find a housing,

wanted to work abroad, his studies, you name it.

In hindsight, these were just BS excuses to avoid living with me.

The last year of our relationship was rough. I wanted to live together, but he wouldn't make any

moves. We fought about it a lot. It felt like I was never his priority, work, money, and studies,

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