This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. I caught my husband cheating, but he said it isn't real cheating. Should I leave him? And this is OKOP where we tell the craziest true stories on Earth. I'm John and Sam. Should they leave him? I want to know what this real cheating he thinks exists is. I bet you it's some emotional cheating. And I think, let's drop this

relationship either way. But there's only one way to find out. Spill that tea. So this story comes

from Luna Nova 57 to six. They say, my husband and I, both 35, have been together for seven years

and married for five. He has two older brothers that he isn't particularly close with. The one person he is very close with is his cousin, Aaron. Oh, please tell me it's not one of those stories, John. Come on. Come on. Get mad at Riley, not at me. He's the one that picks him. I just read them. They lived together after my husband graduated college. He was even the best

man at our wedding. And Aaron even lived with us for a year while we were married so he could finish school.

Okay, so they're very close, almost like brothers, like best friend brothers cousins. Yeah,

really close. Stop done. Really close. People don't want it. I like Aaron a lot. He has felt like a

brother-in-law to me, much more than my actual in-laws have ever felt. My husband and I have had a rough three years. Between COVID, there was a point where both of our fathers were in terrible health. We've dealt with infertility issues. And sadly, in July, we had a stillbirth at 34 weeks pregnant.

Dang, that's almost about to pop too.

That's rough.

Awful.

And Aaron has been there for us through all of that.

He is probably the person my husband can lean on the most for support.

That's awesome.

Last night, I get a call from Aaron's long time girlfriend, Jennifer.

She asked if it was okay if she come over and have some girl talk with me.

Jennifer and Aaron have been together as long as my husband and I have, so seven years.

She has three kids from a previous relationship and we love them.

They spent the night at her house and her oldest kid dog sat for us.

She comes over and proceeds to tell me a serious problem that she

has had with Aaron. Cheating. It's got to be cheating. And she is at a loss of what to do. It's got to be

cheating. The main crux of the issues here are Aaron is in an insane amount of debt. And he basically

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