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Am I the asshole for going no contact with my biological father and his new family?

I'm currently going to un-hartful, and I have recently gone pretty low to no contact with my father

after him repeatedly choosing his new family over me and continuing to abandon every, like, interaction you would have together.

Basically, every time I would go and have, like, a lunch outing with him or going to just, like, hang out and just have a conversation and like catch up as we are both adults

and a messed up economy every time he would set those plans and I would drive the hour

and a half it takes for me to go ahead and hear him because he doesn't want to travel to me

he canceled five minutes before we were supposed to meet. Dick. Kind of whack.

Yeah.

No.

I'm concerned that I might be the asshole because my little sisters are still over there.

And because of me going non-contact, I'm not able to really interact with them.

They are my main priority.

He and his wife are not.

My name is fuck it.

Well, I mean, yeah, this is this is a hard situation. I mean, like, obviously your dad's

being a dick. Like, who cancels five minutes before? That's such a dick move. I think we separate

this AITA into two different AITAs and there's the dad AITA and the sister AITA.

Yeah. So dad, obviously a asshole. Obviously the asshole. Also, what is like, like, what is a respectable

amount of time to cancel? I think, I think, um, at least, honestly, before the other person starts driving yeah there is no

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