Ep 87- Mariam's Story: "My Culture Married Me" (Love Series)
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
4.8 • 855 Ratings
🗓️ 13 December 2019
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
Ok...this story is INTENSE to say the least! + I was mentioning it to a dear sister I know and the details me picking her jaw up from the floor. She was like, "No way! This does not happen in the Muslim community!" + Am I going to tell you a marriage story about an arranged marriage??!! Definitely not! + This story is pretty unique and yet ohhhh so typical for our people believe it or not. I thousands of girls who have this same story and I need it to be told out in the open. + To bash Islam? Of course not! Instead, to teach our people where our CULTURE is taking preference over our religion. To talk about some things that are causing our young people pain that is soooo unnecessary. + If you are looking for love, are a parent that has to marry their child off in the future or are just curious about what Islam REALLy says please take a listen. Let's dig into Mariam's story and get to the heart of where things went wrong. Hopefully, it can make things easier for our beautiful potential brides and grooms and end the madness once and for all! + If you haven't already caught the first episode in this Love Series, (Episode 85) called "Why We Can't Date in Islam", you will find it here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-85-why-cant-we-date-in-islam/id1447820372?i=1000458811822 + If you are interested in a couple PRO tips on the signs for if you have found "the one", check out my resource here: https://mailchi.mp/mindful-muslimah.com/10signsthatyoumayhavefoundtheone + Catch me on my Facebook page (Mindful Muslimah) at 7pm for our first ever Facebook Live. We will talk about your comments and questions on this topic and episode and get some answers! Can't wait to hear what you are thinking. See you there, insh'Allah!!!
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| 0:00.0 | So last week we kicked off our love series with a podcast on why dating doesn't really work for Muslims. |
| 0:09.5 | And we're going to actually continue that conversation tonight, inshallah, in our Facebook |
| 0:16.1 | live at 7 p.m. Standard Eastern Time at Mindful Muslima on Facebook. Hope to see you guys there. But today, |
| 0:25.1 | I have an intense story, intense to say the least, about a sister we're going to call Medium. |
| 0:31.7 | Because I told you that in this podcast series, we're going to be bringing like real life |
| 0:37.4 | stories of things that are happening |
| 0:38.8 | to real young people in our community and even actually a little bit older, just people |
| 0:42.8 | looking for spouses in general and kind of what they're going through in the process and all |
| 0:47.1 | the different ways that they're trying to find spouses. Now this particular story, I recently |
| 0:53.2 | told to someone the other day and their jaw was like open the whole time. |
| 0:57.9 | They were like, this stuff happens in the Muslim community. |
| 1:00.7 | I don't believe it. |
| 1:01.7 | And I was like, sister, this happens to hundreds and hundreds, if not thousands of women on a regular basis. |
| 1:08.5 | And you're going to find out why. |
| 1:10.2 | But if you are looking for a spouse or no someone who is, |
| 1:13.5 | you're a parent who's just trying to like figure out the best way for your child, |
| 1:17.3 | you need to hear this one. |
| 1:19.3 | Hopefully, inshallah, ta'a, we can learn from each other's missteps |
| 1:23.1 | and find a better way to do things. |
| 1:26.1 | Don't miss this one. |
| 1:27.5 | Take a listen. |
| 1:53.8 | Hello, Samaraykum. Thank you for joining us here at Mindful Muslim Speaks, the podcast where we are empowering women to grow and thrive. |
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