Ep 817: It’s Not You, It’s Me.
Your Favorite Aunties
ShaMarian Nia
4.9 • 699 Ratings
🗓️ 3 June 2026
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
Ever been offended and tried to act like you weren’t? 👀
Yeah… us too.
This week, we’re talking all things offense: how we know when we’re offended, why certain things get under our skin, how long we’re willing to sit in it, and what it actually takes to move forward.
We discuss hurt feelings, unmet expectations, difficult conversations, forgiveness, accountability, and the difference between protecting your peace and holding onto a grudge.
Because if we’re being real, offense has a way of showing up in friendships, relationships, family dynamics, church, work… pretty much everywhere.
So let’s talk about it:
How do YOU know when you’re offended? And how do you get over it?
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| 0:00.0 | Hey y'all, it's TT Shem here with a very special announcement before we get today's episode started. |
| 0:07.0 | We're throwing TT Nia a virtual batch of the red party June 20th at 7 p.m. Central Standard Time. |
| 0:13.5 | You don't want to miss it, Shamaria. Why don't I want to miss it? |
| 0:17.2 | Because we're going to have some fun and I know y'all want to hang with the aunties after dark. |
| 0:21.4 | We're going to keep things spicy. We We're gonna have some games, some prizes, |
| 0:25.6 | and some real talk. Okay? If y'all know us, y'all know we're a key and we're a good time. |
| 0:32.0 | You don't want to miss this and I know you want to be a part of this bachelor red party. Okay? |
| 0:36.6 | Now listen, this is not gonna be like anything you've seen us do before because we're getting |
| 0:41.6 | a little deeper this time. It's time for her to get married so we need to make sure we send her off in the right way. So with that being said, you |
| 0:48.7 | can find the tickets at our website and your favorite aunties podcast.com. Also, it'll be in all the descriptions for the audio and visual. Make sure you don't miss it. I did the last one, friend. |
| 1:00.8 | Hey, everybody. |
| 1:01.6 | Welcome back to another episode of Your Favorite aunties Pie. |
| 1:08.5 | Yes. Last one, friend. Hey everybody. Welcome back to another episode of Your Favorite I See's Pie Test. I'm offended that you just put me on the spot like this. I didn't. Normally I try to do it and you still talk over me anyway. Wow, so that's how you do. Oh, I'd be offended. Well, let's just gonna hear air out all the offense right now. Before we do that, it's still TTCM's birthday month. So if you have been living under a rock |
| 1:26.6 | and you missed it, definitely make sure |
| 1:28.2 | to wish her a happy birthday, |
| 1:29.2 | send a little sum sum. |
| 1:30.6 | Mm-hmm. Yeah. And see, I was gonna take that. I was gonna do that. Oh, and you just did eat. Well, but I'm not offended by that. Yeah. So, well, you know what, I'm gonna let you do the topic |
| 1:42.7 | because you're the one that's like, |
| 1:43.8 | let me, let us do this. |
| 1:45.6 | Come let us go. |
| 1:46.6 | So, what I you know, I'm gonna let you do the topic because you're the one that's like, let me, let us do this. |
| 1:45.7 | Come, let us go. |
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