Ep 807: Church Girl Problems

Your Favorite Aunties

ShaMarian Nia

Society & Culture

4.9 • 699 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2026

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Being the “good girl” sounds beautiful… until real life starts lifing.

We’re unpacking church girl problems from growing up as the “saved,” “well-behaved,” “set apart” girl to navigating dating, boundaries, identity, and real-world experiences as an adult woman of faith.

We’re talking about the pressure to be perfect, the fear of getting it wrong, the things we were taught (and what we had to unlearn), and the tension between honoring God and actually living a full, honest life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you were raised to be and who you’re becoming… this one is for you.

Because being a good girl doesn’t mean losing yourself and holiness and wholeness should go hand in hand.

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0:00.0	Everybody and welcome back to another episode of your favorite aunties podcast. Oh my goodness. It feels so good to just be in the studio to be with you to just take a second to forget about the world's problems and just have a little shit chat with my best friend. It does feel cool. It's been nice kind of like bouncing back and forth between virtual and
0:25.2	parsing. I feel like it's mixing it up. It's bringing different energy. It's opening it up for us to have more guests. Yeah, it's easy. We don't have to like wait for them to be in Houston or get them here and all of the logistical things. So it's been really cool. Just having different guests and also just having virtual episodes too. But it's good always to be in the studio. I'm just like, I just read how to touch you.
0:45.2	Reach out into somebody's hand. Before we get started, just want to send a huge thank you to everyone for my birthday. It was absolutely amazing. I cannot believe 35. When did this happen? I can't believe it, but also it's very 35. 35, I don't feel 35. I don't feel like I'm the 35 that I pictured myself being at 35, but 35 nonetheless. So, be a Mary 35. Yes. Yes. Who knew? Oh, God. I just thought about that, because I used to write out five year plans. Yeah. for so for my 20, when I was 20, I made one for 25.
1:27.0	I was like, I wouldn't be married.
1:28.7	And I wouldn't, if I only knew, it would actually be 35. Oh, I would have been like, yeah, nah. Just 10 years old. That's a lot. That's a lot. So who knew? But praise God. So anyways, thank you. now we can get into the.
1:42.0	You're so cute.
1:43.3	Which wins right now.
1:44.7	How?
1:45.2	Cause we're the same age for like two seconds.
1:48.0	And don't take it away. and now we can get into the. You're so cute. Which wins right now? How?
1:45.6	Cause we're the same age. For like two seconds. And don't take it away from you. Just basket this. We're like Irish twins. Well, yeah. Yeah. I think that that's cute. Just cause like, oh, look at us. And then I'm, you know, right there. Yeah. Yeah. 30 I'm finna be 40? You're not.
2:05.8	36 is, it's like an old 40.
2:08.0	No, it is not.
2:08.9	It ain't 35.
2:09.7	It's cute too though.
2:10.6	I don't know.
2:11.5	Now that I'm older, I'm like, oh, this is cute. I thought that those ages were old when I was coming up. Yeah. I'm getting to that age.
2:17.5	I'm like, I'm grown.
2:19.9	No 40, okay, don't get me wrong.
2:22.1	40 is actually very cute.
2:23.6	It's very like, I'm an adult now.
2:25.5	Grown woman.
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