EP 74: Recognizing the Difference between Avoidant Attachment vs. Incompatibility
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
4.7 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 November 2020
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
SPECIAL EPISODE ALERT:
Coming hot of the DMs!
In this episode, I answer YOUR burning questions about recognizing incompatibility vs. your avoidant attachment in action.
The question comes straight from one of our listeners, and is one I get frequently:
“How do I know if I am incompatible with someone, or if it is just my avoidant attachment style getting activated?!”
In this episode we discuss:
- How to recognize avoidant attachment strategies (and course correct!)
- How to Slow Down your decisions and avoid self-sabotage
- How to recognize true compatibility (not just chemistry)
This is a value-packed episode you don't want to miss!
And remember - you can ALWAYS dm me your questions, and I might just answer them on the show!
If you haven’t done so already make sure you join the Successful Women Great Relationships Facebook Group - there will be some AMAZING (and free) training coming to you LIVE in that group very soon and you don’t want to miss it!
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast with me your host Dr. Morgan Anderson, clinical psychologist, relationship |
| 0:16.4 | coach, love expert, creator of the ESL relationship method and athletic wear connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise |
| 0:27.3 | yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:34.0 | Each week, two episodes will air, |
| 0:37.0 | featuring expert advice, live coaching, |
| 0:40.0 | and tips showing you exactly how to improve your life and attract great relationships. |
| 0:46.0 | You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and loved. |
| 0:51.0 | So buckle up and let's get vulnerable. |
| 0:55.0 | Okay all before we get started I promised myself I wouldn't forget to share with you |
| 1:00.8 | some really important news. I have officially opened the opportunity to work with |
| 1:08.3 | me in the eight-week ESL relationship program. I know it's the holidays coming up and you don't want to |
| 1:16.8 | spend another holiday season alone and worried that you'll be alone forever. You don't want to go through the |
| 1:25.0 | holidays again and come up on January 1 without taking control of your life and |
| 1:31.5 | working on your relationships. |
| 1:35.0 | So that's why I've officially opened up the opportunity to work with me. |
| 1:40.0 | There's a limited amount of spots. Once the spots are gone, they're gone. |
| 1:45.0 | So if you're really truly serious about getting off the dating roller coaster, |
| 1:51.0 | you're tired of all the dating games, and you are ready to attract that |
| 1:56.4 | healthy, great relationship. This program is for you. If you're tired of picking the wrong guy, picking people who won't |
| 2:07.4 | commit, picking people who you feel you can't commit to, if you're tired of all that wasted energy and you want to have a relationship that lasts |
| 2:21.9 | then this program is for you. |
| 2:25.4 | So make sure you don't wait. |
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