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Your Favorite Aunties

Ep 711: Clapback Season

Your Favorite Aunties

ShaMarian Nia

Society & Culture

4.9699 Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2025

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Some folks in the comments really try it—but this week, your favorite aunties talk about what it takes to stay grounded when people test your peace. From wild internet opinions to folks dissecting our friendship, we’re unpacking the balance between clapping back and practicing self-control. 👀 We also get real about being mindful of what we say online, understanding that not everyone’s meant to “get” you, and learning how to rise above the urge to stoop low. If you’ve ever typed out a response and deleted it (or wish you had), this one’s for you.





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0:00.0

Your first great love story is free when you sign up for a free 30 day trial at audible.co.uk-slaosh-wondery. That's audible.co.uk-slaosh-wondery. Was... It was... It was up, you guys. Welcome back to another episode of... Your favorite aunties podcast. church announcement, I know that we've said it before, but you guys, season seven, we are over halfway done with it. And we just want to make sure that if we have any followers or listeners who have a business, have a brand, have a product, y'all have seen us do some product placement, y'all have seen us make some ads for other people, and they have been so blessed by it.

0:46.2

So we definitely wanna make sure

0:47.3

that you are aware that you do have that opportunity to let us know that you have a brand or product or something that you want us to share with our audience. Make sure you fill out our partnership form. We have several different packages available, depending on what you're looking for from our audience. and we just want to really make sure and drive at home

1:04.2

that you are aware of that.

1:05.6

So go to your favorite auntiespodcasts.com,

1:08.2

click on partnership slash collaborations, there is a Google form for you to fill out and once we get it, our team will reach out to you. Come on team because we have one of those. Yeah. Okay. So today is going to be a wee bit interesting and a little bit different from our normal content, right? Because a lot of the times we are incredibly peaceful people, right, where at least you are. And more often than not, the reason why a lot of y'all haven't been told off every which way but Sunday is because of this one. And a lot of it has to do with like the comments that people leave. And a lot of times I want to clap at. I want to say something, but all I can hear is you saying, friends, don't do it. And I'll be like, nah, because they said such and so. And they need to, you know, maybe like, yeah, nah. But today, isn't that day. And I just want to go over a few things that y'all have been saying in the comments. And go ahead. I just want to, yeah, yeah, they said it. I'ma say it too. And what people felt realized, and I need, we're, hold on, I'm right here, okay. What I need for people to understand is, every cause there's a reaction, for every action there's a reaction, right? I wouldn't say anything if you didn't do anything. So know that. Know that it was because of you that this is happening. Okay, so I want to make that very clear. So any comments that I talk about, I made even use your username. I don't care.

2:45.0

Because the thing is, I would have nothing to say if you didn't write it. All right? Write it wrong, yes or no? It's fair. Okay. Don't mess with me. Yeah. Oh my girl. Because then I'm gonna get active. And I think the kids say that. Oh, Lord, not the kids. I think that's what they say. to be young folks there.

3:03.9

Yeah.

3:04.7

Now you wanna turn me into a, uh, uh, uh,

3:06.8

not a Y-in.

3:08.2

I wouldn't be a Y-. I'd be a, I don't know what you would be. Uh, middle age, auntie. Am I middle age? I'm not middle age. Wait, that's the first of all the whammy and take me through this same song. And nobody told me nothing. You... From... Yeah., how'd I do it? You got me a fee? You give me all the time because you know I'm going on these people. You're trying to soften me up. No, because you'll really be making me mad because why are you all going to come and say, this episode was so hard to watch. Why was it hard to watch? Need to tell them you, my friend. No, in real life. Okay, we can talk about, we'll talk about specific comments, but also I just wanted to talk about in general, just like clapping back. Should we, can we, what does that look like? Yeah. All of the things. One, what brought this up for me in general was a friendship episode we did a few weeks

4:06.2

back.

4:07.2

Several comments that we saw were like, oh, this is hard to watch.

4:12.7

It looks like, I don't know, something to the effect of like, you know, one person wants

4:16.5

to leave and one person wants to stay or like something like that.

4:19.8

And I was just like, what?

4:21.4

I'm like, right.

4:23.8

We're just talking.

4:24.8

And for me, the majority of the episode, we were not talking about each other. There were moments where we were talking about our current friendship. But for the most part, we were actually talking about other situations. And so I feel like some people want to see something or expect to see something. And that affects their like lens and filter. Because I'm like, I'm not trying to go. I never, that's not the image or the words I was trying to put out. We can have a friendship and have differences, have heart conversations, have all of that. That doesn't mean I'm trying to lead. Right. And I feel like I got painted as the villain. And I was like, I'm not the villain. Right. There's no villain. There is no villain.

5:05.2

Like, there is no villain.

5:06.6

I think that part of it too is like,

5:08.2

y'all are watching our friendship in real time.

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