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Let me tell you something. Today, we're going to be talking about what goes down in the DMs. Okay. We need to have a conversation of what types of conversation need to be had in the DMs. You know, because like when you're in a relationship and when you're single, your DMs, you know, how you operate in them, that's a switch. That should switch up. Yeah. I'm wondering though, like, okay. What? Okay. Not trying to be no kind of way. I have not been actively engaged in DMs in a little while. Yeah. Has anything changed in the dating streets in the last two and a half years? Ooh. For me? I haven't put myself out there like how I was. So yeah, it's definitely switched up. I don't get the, I don't get the DMs the way that I used to. When I was like more active and you know, just really putting myself out there. So it's changed for me. It changed for me. So yeah. Because you know that like the dating landscape changes every few years. Yeah. And that's why I feel like when we first started talking about dating we will always say if you haven't been out here Chill out right because it changes like quite often. Yeah, so with everything going on in the world I'm like, I don't know. I don't know if it's still like it used to be I mean sometimes you do run into Some guys who are and you think like okay, who gonna be the boy? You know like It's gonna be me of the, it's gonna be me, it's gonna be you.

Now, you know, I'm all for letting your man know

that you are, that you like them,

that you wanna spend time with them and that.

You know, you're in this as much as they are.

I don't know, but it's, sometimes it's like,

okay, but have you done it for me?

Mm.

Okay, Miss Gural, you know, but that's another part of the conversation. So I mean, I think that part of dating is real, whatever to navigate. Just getting over like seeing who you're compatible with, what things are gonna work and what things are not gonna work. So how do you figure out like, how do you figure out what works and what doesn't work? Baby, as soon as you get something that don't work, as soon as you get something that don't work, that's immediately how you know what it's gonna work. What's gonna fly, what's not gonna fly, okay? Baby, sometimes you can't say what you do want, but you can't say what you don't.

Yeah.

Huh?

I think that's why it's important to date.

I mean, we talked about before, there was a whole movement a while ago when I was coming

up to not date, just kind of like wait on your kingdom spouse.

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