Ep 7 - Why Do Some People Never Really Get Over Infidelity, Communicate So Poorly, Avoid, or Fight, & Never Get To The Truth?

Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity

Brad and Morgan Robinson

Affairrecovery, Self-improvement, Sexuality, Infidelity, Family, Relationships, Marriage, Cheating, Health & Fitness, Trust, Education

4.6 • 737 Ratings

🗓️ 25 October 2016

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

How to understand the best strategies for communication and connecting with your spouse after discovering infidelity in your marriage.

Often times we try to heal after betrayal with the old patterns of communication that actually contributed to the affair happening in the first place. We were caught in a negative cycle before the affair happened and before it was discovered. Then after the affair is discovered our negative cycle (or old patterns of communicating) don't improve...they simply get worse and cause us to loose control and can cost us our marriage).

So in order to completely heal after betrayal we must identify where we get stuck and learn new ways to communicate and connect with each other so you can begin to heal from the infidelity.

Until we identify our negative cycle we can't completely heal. Be sure to check out Episode 3 because it's the first part of this 2 part series.

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0:00.0	I think it's interesting.
0:00.8	You said, I have no feelings because they don't know what they're feeling.
0:05.4	They can't reason or recognize or understand, you know, why are they getting angry and what's making them so confused.
0:12.7	And, yeah, they do have feelings.
0:14.6	They just don't know what they are.
0:16.2	And they can't seem to navigate through the emotional web.
0:20.1	So it looks like they have no feelings.
0:26.6	You're listening to Healing Broken Trust with Brad and Morgan Robinson.
0:34.6	This is episode seven.
0:40.5	In this episode, we talk about how to stop fighting or avoiding and get answers,
0:45.4	and it's part two to the negative cycles episode that we did episode three.
0:50.9	And I want to remind you to go to healing broken trust.com forward slash episode seven to
0:56.9	download free resources to help you through this process. That's healing broken trust.com
1:02.1	forward slash episode the number seven, seven, and download those free resources. It's really
1:07.8	going to help you through this process. But we want to give you some context before we get started to kind of remind you of what we're talking about here. Brad,
1:16.8	do you want to give them some context? Yeah, we're continuing our earlier podcasts that we had
1:21.6	from episode three on negative cycles and how to stop fighting or avoiding getting answers being able to really
1:29.5	heal one of the things that we talk about in here is burnt out pursuers and this can explain why
1:38.1	people have an exit affair when they decide to be done with the marriage and they have an affair
1:43.2	and then that person pulls them out of the marriage.
1:46.3	And so that's something we talk about that we're going to get to exit affairs,
1:50.2	but we discuss that just briefly in this.
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