So I am super freaking excited we are finally having a live in person three day boot camp again in my old stop and ground beautiful Denver. It's going to be this July 29 through the 31st now if you've never been to one of my boot camps.

I can humbly say you will likely be blown away by the experience. Now, yeah, it's drinking through a fire hose about every aspect of this business, but it's also a tremendous amount of fun.

And an incredible opportunity to meet other motivated like minded people. Now we go deep on building your team, finding deals, evaluating those deals, raising the money you need for your deals, financing them syndication joint ventures, managing your properties and on and on every aspect of this business.

Now, there'll also be billions of dollars represented by the panelists that I'll have on stage each day to answer all your questions and.

And also because you know 80 to 90% of your success and anything is your mindset right I spent a good bit of time on that as well. So you actually take action with what I teach you.

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All right, let's get to it.

Today we're going to talk about the power and the momentum you bring into your life when you establish boundaries for yourself.

Now when you've set up these boundaries around what you will do and what you won't do it's a clear indication to other people that you love and respect who yourself of course not having any boundaries in your life really equates to not having anyone respect you.

Now if you don't value your time enough to set some healthy boundaries no one else is going to value your time having no boundaries or unhealthy boundaries can also lead to things like loaning money to someone and putting your own finances at risk or saying yes to things that take away from your free time.

You know you can find yourself doing things you don't enjoy or don't want to do unhealthy boundaries can also prevent you from speaking up for yourself.

So if you're not sure if you have healthy or unhealthy boundaries here's some clues that you know you might be on the unhealthy side of boundary setting.

So for example you might need to set some boundaries if you're feeling overwhelmed or you might need to set some healthy boundaries if you feel resentment when you're asked for help.

Again you may need some healthy boundaries if you're feeling burned out you may also need healthy boundaries if you avoid certain phone calls and you may need them if you feel like escaping or running away.

You know a simple and straight forward is setting healthy boundaries sounds it could be difficult to establish you know where those boundaries actually are or should be.

Now very often wanting to be a peacekeeper or a pleaser or even a so called good person can keep you from establishing those healthy boundaries that preventers others from taking advantage of your good nature.

There can also be a lot of fear associated with setting your healthy boundaries you know you may be afraid of certain reactions you may get when someone bumps up against one of your boundaries.

Now I've personally had to establish my own healthy boundaries to protect my time it was very hard for me to say no no one is perfect at this by the way but I want to give you some great tips that can help you establish your own healthy boundaries for yourself and actually not just establish but also keep those boundaries for yourself intact.

First you have to realize that you and only you are responsible for setting your boundaries and you alone are responsible for honoring those boundaries if you don't honor them no one else will.

Second you need to understand that you're not responsible for how others react to your boundaries and we say that again you're not responsible for other people react to the boundaries you've set for yourself.

Third if your relationships and because you set some boundaries that's a sign that the foundation was cracked to begin with if someone throws a fit because you set boundaries it's just more proof that healthy boundaries were needed for yourself.

Now setting boundaries is a way to take care of yourself doesn't mean that you're mean or selfish or uncaring it makes the statement that you take care of you first so that you're able to take care of others.

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