Hi guys, good morning, happy Monday. How was everybody's weekend? Well, it's officially

fall now. It was officially fall, I guess I'm Friday too, but now it really feels like

it. Um, wow, so many interesting responses from, uh, Friday's episode. I mean, seriously,

I think every single person on this earth has been cheated on. He got so many nice DMs.

Uh, I'll just read, read one or two. Hi, tanks. Just listen to your pot about cheating.

I was cheated on four years ago by my boyfriend. I stayed with after I just started their therapy

to cope with this years later. Since I felt too shameful to even deal with it at the time,

your pod really helped me, uh, about it being your pod about it being about them, not you

really helped me. Thanks for everything. You're so welcome. I got quite a few messages

like that. It's, it can be really, really difficult not to internalize, not to internalize

and not to take it so personally. And I think, you know, a lot of that has to do with, especially

for my millennial sisters out there, the way that cheating was portrayed in the media

when we were growing up. Like I always think about, um, the Brad and Jen scandal and, you

know, how they painted Jennifer Aniston to be this kind of like sad woman and, you know,

whatever. And they, they kind of put, put Angelina and Jen against each other like,

who the two women, it was not at all about Brad Pitt being a shithead. You know, it

wasn't all about it. The headline was never like, he's a cheating fuck. It was like,

ooh, who, who side are you on? Remember there was even those shirts that they sold it,

Kitson. It was like team, team Jen, team Angelina. Can you fucking imagine? Like it's

flabbergasting when you think about it. So, especially for my millennial girl, these

out there, I, I know how personally we take things and I know how much negative energy

we absorbed from the media growing up. So I really want to hammer that home, um, over

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