EP 591: Love Is Blind Season 9: What Annie & Nick Teach Us About Attachment Styles
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 22 October 2025
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
Okay, y’all… we need to talk about this season of Love Is Blind. 😅 I’ve been watching Season 9 and could not resist breaking down what we’re seeing between Annie and Nick because it’s giving major anxious and avoidant attachment energy. In this episode, I share what their dynamic can teach us about emotional regulation, self-worth, and why your attachment style matters so much in how you show up in relationships.
As always, this isn’t about judging anyone, it’s about learning. When we can see our patterns clearly, that’s when real healing begins. So grab your coffee, let’s unpack this together.
Inside the episode:
- The truth about perfectionism and how it fuels disconnection in relationships.
- Why no amount of reassurance will ever make you feel safe until you do the healing.
- How attachment wounds quietly sabotage love — and what you can do to change that.
If you found yourself relating to Annie’s anxiety or Nick’s perfectionism, this episode is your mirror. And if you’re ready to finally stop repeating the same patterns in love, now is your time. Applications for the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program are closing at the end of this year — and once they’re closed, that’s it.
Don’t wait another season to start healing. 💫
👉 Apply to Empowered.Secure.Loved™ now — applications close soon!
🔗 Additional Episode Links:
- Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz
- Follow me on IG → @drmorgancoaching
- Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, psychologist, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, author of Love Magnet and Athletic Wear Connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:22.3 | Each week, two episodes will air featuring expert advice, live coaching, and tips, showing you |
| 0:28.4 | exactly how to improve your life and attract a healthy relationship. You deserve to feel empowered, |
| 0:34.8 | secure, and love. Buckle up and Let's Get Vulnerable. |
| 0:42.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. |
| 0:45.0 | I'm your host, Dr. Morgan, and my goodness, we have a show for you today. |
| 0:49.7 | We need to unpack Love is Blind. |
| 0:53.3 | What is going on in this season? |
| 0:56.8 | This has been a tough one. |
| 0:58.3 | I don't know how many of you have been following along, but there is a lot going on. |
| 1:05.3 | All right, this is season nine. |
| 1:08.1 | And I know that this is set in Denver, okay? We have so much to talk about. I'm looking at my notes as I'm |
| 1:21.6 | preparing for this episode. There is a lot. There's a lot to say. I want to cover in this episode, |
| 1:27.0 | I want to cover for sure we need to talk |
| 1:31.5 | about Annie and Nick. I want to start with that and let's see what else we get into. We may get |
| 1:37.5 | into Anton and Ali as well, but I will be covering all of the couples in this series because this is not just about pop |
| 1:47.7 | culture. This is about how do we learn from watching these attachment patterns play out in |
| 1:54.4 | real time? How do we take what we're seeing on our screens that's meant to be entertainment |
| 1:59.5 | and turn it into, |
| 2:01.3 | hey, I can really learn from that. Okay. So I obviously always say this every time I comment |
| 2:08.6 | on any reality TV, I do not know these people personally. I have so much grace for them |
| 2:14.7 | and compassion. I know that ultimately this is entertainment. There's producers. |
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