Ep. 566 Guide To Getting A Girlfriend (What To Do After The 1st Date)

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2026

⏱️ 53 minutes

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A lot of men can get the first date… But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next. This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless. Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or completely lose it. In this episode, I sit down with Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, to talk about how men can better understand women and recognize when a woman is actually interested in them. We break down what women are looking for after the first date, the mistakes men make that push women away, and how to build momentum instead of losing it. If you have ever wondered why things seem great on the first date… and then suddenly fade out after… This episode is for you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	When was the last time you stopped and listened to your body?
0:03.4	Here's a Holland and Barrett ad break to do just that.
0:06.9	Go on. Have a listen to your gut.
0:10.4	Is that a gurgle?
0:12.4	A rumble?
0:14.1	Is it straining after lunch?
0:16.7	Or is it saying...
0:18.4	You've got to show me love.
0:24.6	We know what your body's asking for. In store online on the app.
0:26.6	Back your body. Holland and Barrett.
0:29.6	Attention all passengers.
0:33.6	The Uber ride for Mark and Jamal's romantic weekend will depart in four minutes from Platform 6.
0:40.6	Your ride comes with a rolling countryside sunset view and a table seat ideal for playing footsie beneath.
0:47.9	Thank you for booking your tickets on Uber.
0:51.8	Trains on Uber.
0:53.8	The number one trait women look for in a man is a sense of humor.
0:58.2	And if you don't think you have one, guess what, yes, you do.
1:02.8	And I can reach my tiny little hand down deep inside of you and pull it out.
1:08.7	I've worked with hundreds of men and we've got their banter game
1:11.3	up to where women are responding. They're not getting ghosted. They're getting dates and they're
1:16.4	getting, you know, something else. So if you want to knock more than just her socks off,
1:22.2	go to Kristen and Jill.com. If you banter better, you'll date better.
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