Is your stress about money really about money—or something deeper?

In this insightful and empowering coaching session, Christine works with Jody, who is navigating a major life transition after a 20-year marriage. As she steps into financial independence for the first time, she's facing intense fear, overwhelm, and a deep sense of scarcity.

But as the conversation unfolds, a powerful truth emerges: Jody's struggle isn't actually about money—it's about years of conditioning around worth, safety, and control.

Christine helps Jody uncover how childhood patterns, people-pleasing, and a history of shrinking herself have shaped her relationship with money—and how this moment of change is actually an opportunity to reclaim her power.

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by finances, doubted your ability to support yourself, or tied your worth to your financial situation, this episode will help you see what's really going on beneath the surface.

Press play to learn how stepping into your worth—not just your wallet—is the real path to abundance. 

 

Consider / Ask Yourself

• Do you feel anxious or overwhelmed when it comes to money or financial decisions?
• Have you ever given your financial power over to someone else?
• Do you associate safety with "staying small" or avoiding risk?
• Are your financial fears actually rooted in deeper emotional patterns?

 

Key Insights and A-Ha's

• Financial stress is often a reflection of deeper nervous system patterns—not just numbers.
• Scarcity can come from years of shrinking, people-pleasing, and loss of autonomy.
• Major life transitions (like divorce) can be powerful opportunities to reclaim personal and financial power.
• Abundance begins with expanding out of contraction—not just earning more money.
• Support is a key component of an abundance mindset—you don't have to figure everything out alone.

 

How to Deepen the Work

• Reflect on your earliest memories and beliefs about money and worth.
• Notice where you may be bracing, contracting, or avoiding when it comes to finances.
• Practice receiving support—whether emotional, practical, or financial guidance.
• Explore what truly matters to you and begin aligning your spending with your values.

 

Resource Mentioned in This Episode

Good With Money Workshop + Relaxed Money Program with Kate Northrup

Christine recommends this resource for both practical financial strategy and deeper emotional healing around money.

Learn more at:
christinehassler.com/goodwithmoney 

 

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