Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀 This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood emotions in dating: jealousy. And no, it’s not always toxic. In fact, if you know how to use it, it can be one of the most powerful tools for increasing attraction, creating sexual tension, and deepening connection. We’re joined by Ally Iseman from Passport2Pleasure.com, and she’s breaking down how to harness jealousy in a healthy way - whether you’re navigating early dating, a committed relationship, or just trying to spark that “charge” back into your love life. We talk about: What jealousy is really telling you How to use it to create playful intrigue Why avoiding jealousy kills desire And how to stay grounded (not needy) while using it to your advantage If you’ve ever felt triggered, anxious, or powerless in the face of jealousy, this episode will flip the script—and help you turn it into fuel for connection instead. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	If you're tired of feeling tired of feeling tired, a feeling tired of your not just dating life,
0:08.1	but your life in general and you feel like that flame in you is gone, it's dwindled,
0:14.3	and you want it back?
0:15.8	I'm your gal.
0:16.8	You guys know me.
0:17.8	I'm Kristen, obviously, from the show.
0:20.0	We've been doing the show for about 13 years.
0:22.4	Through the 13 years, I've made a radical transformation. You guys might not totally notice because,
0:30.6	don't tell Martin I told you this, but we sneak in some repeat episodes. And so sometimes you get a
0:37.1	taste of the old Kristen, and then sometimes you get a taste of the old Kristen
0:39.3	and then sometimes you get a taste
0:40.8	of the transformed Kristen.
0:43.1	Now I'm talking to you as the transformed Kristen
0:46.4	and I want to help you make the transition
0:50.6	not do a different gender.
0:51.6	I mean, unless that's your thing, whatever, that's fine.
0:55.7	I wanna help you transition into the person you know you're meant to be. I've been there. I've done it. I've
1:02.7	been in your shoes. My 90-day magnetic man program is incredible. Yes, you learn how to banter. Yes,
1:09.9	you learn how to be witty and flirty and fast on your feet and all that good stuff. But it goes way beyond that. This is a full life transformation from the inside out. You'll work with me each week as we build true confidence. Of course, sharpen your flirting and dating skills.
1:28.8	Turn up the saturation on your best qualities and who you are.
1:33.5	Upgrade everything from how you carry yourself when you walk into a room to what you think about yourself,
1:39.1	to your style, to your photos.
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